Date of Graduation
5-2022
Document Type
Thesis
Degree Name
Bachelor of Arts
Degree Level
Undergraduate
Department
Psychological Science
Advisor/Mentor
Veilleux, Jennifer
Committee Member/Reader
Makhanova, Anastasia
Committee Member/Second Reader
Payne, Whitney
Committee Member/Third Reader
Bustamante, Juan J.
Abstract
Close relationships are of immense importance to personal well-being, and regulating emotions after interpersonal conflict is essential to promoting relationship stability and mental health. Across two studies, we examined if individual differences (self-criticism) would interact with situational context (relationship factors) to predict emotion regulation use following relationship conflict. In Study 1 (n = 177), we hypothesized self-criticism would predict maladaptive emotion regulation (etc., rumination, withdrawal) and that these associations would be greater in romantic relationships than friendships. Participants completed a self-criticism measure and were randomly assigned to describe a conflict in either a romantic relationship or friendship. They then rated their negative emotions and the emotion regulation strategies used following the conflict. Results revealed that high self-criticism predicted greater use of maladaptive emotion regulation strategies, but relationship type did not affect strategy use. In Study 2 (n = 315), we focused on relationship factors (i.e., closeness, importance, etc.) instead of relationship type. Results revealed that self-criticism was associated with greater maladaptive regulation and lower adaptive strategies. Also, independent from self-criticism and negative emotion, greater relationship satisfaction and emotional vulnerability predicted greater adaptive emotion regulation; greater emotion invalidation from a conflict partner predicted greater maladaptive regulation use; and greater relationship importance predicted greater adaptive strategy use and cognitive focus. Contrary to our hypotheses, self-criticism did not moderate these effects. Future research might seek to explore causal relationships and underlying reasons for the effects of self-criticism and relationship factors on emotion regulation use (e.g., regulation motives).
Keywords
emotion regulation; close relationships; self-criticism; conflict; emotions; individual differences
Citation
Shaver, D. (2022). It’s Not You, It’s Me: Relationship Conflict, Self-Criticism, and Emotion Regulation. Psychological Science Undergraduate Honors Theses Retrieved from https://scholarworks.uark.edu/psycuht/30